{"id":2512,"date":"2020-04-06T17:33:34","date_gmt":"2020-04-06T17:33:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/stillpointcounselingandwellness.com\/?p=2512"},"modified":"2020-04-06T17:33:34","modified_gmt":"2020-04-06T17:33:34","slug":"its-okay-if-youre-not-being-productive-during-the-pandemic","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/stillpointcounselingandwellness.com\/?p=2512","title":{"rendered":"It\u2019s Okay if You\u2019re not Being Productive During the Pandemic"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">We\u2019re seeing it all over social media, people are making bread, learning to knit or crochet, finally getting in shape or taking that online class they had \u201cbeen meaning to take.\u201d Everyday, newscasters, influencers and celebrities are urging us to use this time wisely and be productive. If you have been, kudos! It\u2019s an amazing feat to be productive even in the best circumstances. However, if you\u2019ve found yourself on the opposite side of the spectrum and haven\u2019t been productive, that\u2019s okay.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In this day and age, being productive and \u201calways grinding\u201d seems to be the norm and if you aren\u2019t constantly on the move or hustling you\u2019re lazy. Well, that\u2019s just not the case. Andrea Sandler, occupational therapist and psychotherapist said \u201cWe\u2019re conditioned to believe that being as productive as possible, and structuring our days in this very externally validating way, is what\u2019s right. There\u2019s an interesting judgement that the more productive people are doing it right, and the less productive people are doing it wrong. But there are no rules around that. It\u2019s all just about getting through.\u201d Again, it\u2019s all just about getting through. If you find yourself feeling down about not being productive during a time of global crisis, here are a few things to remember.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">We all have different coping mechanisms<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">: For some of us, coping with a tragedy looks like staying in your sweatpants all day curled up in front of the TV, and for some people it might be learning a new language, organizing their house or exercising. All are valid ways of coping and no one way is better than the other, it all just depends on the person.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Be compassionate with yourself<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">: <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">We\u2019re all going through a tough time and experiencing something completely unprecedented. It\u2019s normal and completely okay if you\u2019re struggling or having a hard time adapting to your new and very different reality. The best way to start learning to be compassionate with yourself is to notice when you begin to judge yourself. Taking notice of when you begin to judge your behavior can be the stepping stone to being kinder to yourself during this time.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Recognize that you might be grieving:<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Grief counselor Ashley Meikle said that exercising, baking, emotional eating, drinking a lot or gambling can be considered energy-relieving behaviors. These behaviors take the edge off during stressful situations for a short time. It\u2019s important to recognize that in some way we\u2019re all grieving the current loss of all normalcy in our own worlds and grief can affect us in different ways.\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Self-Isolating can be a mental health trigger for many of us<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">: <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Not leaving the house for days at a time, not going outside or interacting with other people can trigger a lot of emotions and even trigger some mental health issues. People who struggle with depression are often told to get out of the house and socialize, which is something we\u2019re no longer able to do. This time can also be triggering for those who struggle with eating disorders or addiction. Whether or not you suffer from a mental health condition, isolating and this disruption in routine has been difficult for everyone.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Focus on the present:<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> I know this one is especially hard right now but the truth is we really don\u2019t know how conditions are going to change a week or even two days from now. Worrying about the future is only going to make you feel worse and cause more anxiety and distress. If you find yourself beginning to spiral, think of something good in your life at the moment and repeat it to yourself as many times as you need. \u201cRight now I still have a job I\u2019m able to do, right now my kids are able to learn and do their schoolwork, right now I don\u2019t have COVID-19.\u201d\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><b>If you or someone you know is struggling with their mental health at this time, here are a few resources:\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">COVID-19 and mental health advice from the <\/span><a href=\"http:\/\/www.camh.ca\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Center of Addiction and Mental Health<\/span><\/a><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.cdc.gov\/coronavirus\/2019-ncov\/daily-life-coping\/managing-stress-anxiety.html?CDC_AA_refVal=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.cdc.gov%2Fcoronavirus%2F2019-ncov%2Fprepare%2Fmanaging-stress-anxiety.html\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">COVID-19 Coping and Stress Tips from the CDC<\/span><\/a><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.aa.org\/pages\/en_US\/options-for-meeting-online\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Online AA Meetings<\/span><\/a><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/stillpointcounselingandwellness.com\/telehealth\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Stillpoint Counseling and Wellness Online Telehealth Services<\/span><\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>We\u2019re seeing it all over social media, people are making bread, learning to knit or crochet, finally getting in shape or taking that online class they had \u201cbeen meaning to take.\u201d Everyday, newscasters, influencers and celebrities are urging us to use this time wisely and be productive. 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